I love this book! My husband and I have both read it, and it has made such a difference in our marriage. We learned that we're polar opposites when it comes to our love languages, but that's just fine. It has totally changed how we relate to each other, and how we try to meet each other's needs in their own love language.We recently just gave it as an engagement gift to a couple and we hope they get as much out of it as we have. So if you're still looking for a Valentine's gift, here's my recommendation!